For some reason I am reminded of a time in my life when I worked a job I truly HATED.
The job simply wasn’t right for my personality, experience or skillset. Honestly, when I interviewed for the position, I saw it as an opportunity to stretch my skills, and do something new, but it turned out to be the most frustrating, draining and joyless job I have ever had.
Those were dark days for me at work, and slowly, it began to leak into my personal life. More of my weekends were spent recovering (mentally and physically) from the previous work week and dreading the upcoming one. My self-esteem suffered and self-doubt crept in as well. I was tired and just…done.
Not a good place to be right? However, I could not just quit. My work hell came with a good pay and benefits…LOL.
So how did I pull myself out?
I started with a long honest “talk” with myself. I addressed what I needed and wanted from my career, the type of work I wanted to do, my hours, my salary, the company culture and leadership I wanted to be a part of. And just as importantly, I thought about why this current job was not a good fit for me.
Next, I began to remind myself that despite what things “felt” like the situation was TEMPORARY. No, it would not be solved in the next 10 minutes, but it wasn’t forever either. I found joy and purpose through other things. I took the perspective of viewing the entire forest (my life), instead of focusing on a single tree (my job).
Then, I got strategic. Updated my resume and begin applying for positions. I strategically selected positions (inside and outside the company) that met my criteria. This was not done out of fear or frustration, but with purpose and intention. Moving past my own self-doubt, I trusted the right position was out there, and I would find it.
Finally, I had patience. The process took time…months! I still showed up for work, did my job to the best of my ability while maintaining a positive attitude. The realization came to me, the job isn’t going to change, so my approach to it would have too. I began to respect the job for what it was, a way to financially support myself until I found better. And… eventually I did!
To be clear, it was NOT EASY. I was constantly reminding myself of my purpose and objectives through frustrated sighs and even…tears. However, I am immensely grateful and thankful for the persistence and dedication I developed during this time. I gained a clearer vision for my career, plus strengthened my confidence and faith.
Well, not sure who needed this encouragement, but my hope is that you will not quit. Decide and stay committed to the push forward to the “better” life has for you.
Until Next Time…
Thanks and Be Blessed
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